Dearest,
I wrote a list of things that I simply have to write home about that haven´t yet made it into the letters.
We continue to receive on many nights bags of croissant-like pastries tossed up to us!! So kind. We visited the bakery one time to give our thanks. The couple that works there are members in a different branch in the city, but they still give us food. Oh my, they were amazingly generous when we were in their store. They showed us with excitement all the ovens and back corners, and gave us cute little tarts, bread, and then sent us home with an entire pound cake! All for free! Just because! The members of the church in Uruguay have so much faith and strength when there aren´t many others who are strong in the faith. They are also so generous. Almost everyone whose house we stop by at offers us cold drinks. It is very common to drink carbonated water here, which I love and my companion hates. :) We´re always receiving generous offerings, even from people who have very little.
After that bakery experience, we went to meet an inactive family. They weren´t expecting us. The mom and oldest daughter were smoking on the porch. Her oldest son was about to return from a mission (he just got back this last monday). They promptly extinguished their cigarettes and we had a very good chat. She was very open with us -- she used to be a relief society president and many other very active callings, but she got divorced and had lots of problems in her family, and they haven´t gone to church for years, and she started smoking again. I love the way that Uruguayos are so frank and open. Most people we talk to are that way -- very honest about their problems and their lives. It´s not common in the US.
Some curiosities of Uruguay: everyone rides motorcyles!! I mean EVERYONE! From 14-year-old boys to 80-year-old grandmas and everything in between and everything not included in that category . . . . yep, everyone rides them. It´s pretty funny. Also, it´s "cool" to take out the muffler, which my companion called the stupidest thing he´s ever heard of. :) It is bad. Also, like most of South America, I imagine, there are tons of dogs here. Everyone has a dog or 10. We just had elections here, and there were these obnoxious cars driving around playing political ads. We adopted one of their slogans: "Somos hoy, somos ahora" "We are today, we are now" :)
We are teaching a fantastic man named Emanuel. He is the boyfriend of a girl who is the daughter of our ward mission leader. Their family, that of the ward mission leader, is familia Oyarzabal. They are so fantastic! I love their devotion to the gospel. They are super nice and always welcome us into their home. We teach Emanuel at their house, because he always goes over there after work to relax and be with that family and his girlfriend. He came to church on Sunday!!! It was such a joy! He´s the coolest guy -- very chilled out, very genuine. He is very interested in the gospel and has been to church before, and even went on the branch temple trip without realizing that he couldn´t go inside. He told us he would love to enter the temple. He has faith and a desire to repent and be baptized. He is working on quitting smoking right now to achieve the goal of being baptized on the 31st. I know he can do it!
We were teaching a woman named Maria Eugenia. She is in her twenties and takes care of her two young siblings. Horrifically, their father killed their mother. I can´t even imagine what they went through. The two kids are members and are the sweetest little spirits ever. Maria has trouble with the law of chastity because she has a boyfriend, but they do not live together. She accepted the law, but has decided not to be baptized. We have not given up on her though. She is wonderful. We have had a family home evening with their family.
My time runs thin, so I must cut to the chase. On Saturday, I had the opportunity to give a blessing in Spanish for the first time! I felt the Spirit so strongly, and even though I couldn´t say very much, I felt the love of the Lord for Maria Jose Cabrera, the less-active member we teach. She has had a lot of problems in her life and is in a sad situation right now. Her house is the most humble house I have ever been in. She´s not married to her boyfriend, but they have three kids. Her 8-year-old daughter is being baptized on the 31st!!! Her boyfriend is not a member. She really has a sincere desire to change her life and get active in the church, and she´s working to achieve that. She´s working to stop smoking and to get married and to generally turn her life around. It´s awesome to see someone progress like that!!!
We also had a rockin lesson with Emanuel on the law of chastity. Hermana Oyarzabal testified so sweetly of the law and the impact it has had in her family and her marriage. Mom and Dad, I´m so grateful that you have lived that law! I often testify of my family´s strength because of the strength of my parents.
Yesterday, we gave another blessing in the hospital. We randomly just walked in and wandered around -- NOT possible in the US!!!
We also had a cool lesson with an adamant baptist guy. He was awesome! He and his daughter refused to believe in Joseph Smith, but we left them a BoM! It felt great to testify of Joseph Smith.
Much love to everyone!! Know that I am loving this missionary work so much. I am being much more patient with myself as well. The church is so true!!!
--Elder Max Olivier